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Just Another Cliche

I heard some say the other day "What doesn't kill us makes us stronger". Nietzsche made a very profound statement then and in context about the human condition, he's right. Unfortunately for me, I get lines of songs, phrases and sometimes useless stuff that stays in my head for what seems like days sometimes. But I digress. 

I tend to disagree. I'm going through the loss of love. The grief I'm feeling, desperation, loneliness and I'm wondering, this? This is going to make me stronger? I do know that one day this will all pass. Not much consolation to me right now. No she isn't dead. Just no love between us anymore. See her, talk to her everyday and not feel her love not see it in her eyes anymore but also feeling the same way.  

I just can't help but feel how vulnerable, open, too open right now. I can see how I could become jaded about love. Not want to love anymore, leave myself open to be loved anymore. No I can't. I just won't let it happen. I seriously doubt I'll be stronger after this. Just scarred.
 

Posted by Musings at 10:46 on October 11th, 2011 at 10:46AM  
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Just Another Cliche

I heard some say the other day "What doesn't kill us makes us stronger". Nietzsche made a very profound statement then and in context about the human condition, he's right. Unfortunately for me, I get lines of songs, phrases and sometimes useless stuff that stays in my head for what seems like days sometimes. But I digress. 

I tend to disagree. I'm going through the loss of love. The grief I'm feeling, desperation, loneliness and I'm wondering, this? This is going to make me stronger? I do know that one day this will all pass. Not much consolation to me right now. No she isn't dead. Just no love between us anymore. See her, talk to her everyday and not feel her love not see it in her eyes anymore but also feeling the same way.  

I just can't help but feel how vulnerable, open, too open right now. I can see how I could become jaded about love. Not want to love anymore, leave myself open to be loved anymore. No I can't. I just won't let it happen. I seriously doubt I'll be stronger after this. Just scarred.
 

Posted by Musings at 10:23 on October 11th, 2011 at 10:23AM  
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